How to know if he is cheating on you
Yeah, you read that right. Many people do ask questions like, is my boyfriend cheating on me? How will I know if he is cheating? And so many more questions. There are many glaring red flags which indicate cheating but many seem to ignore them because of reasons best known to them or would I say love? Yeah, maybe that’s the appropriate word.
In this article, we are going to be looking at different signs or red flags that indicate a cheating boyfriend. Some of these signs might not really mean he is cheating but trust me, if he exhibits most of them, then you have the answer staring straight to your face.
Signs/red flags of a cheating boyfriend
Your intuition.
In most cases, this isn’t a 100% proof of cheating but might likely be correct. When you have a cheating boyfriend, firstly, you start suspecting something, you begin to feel something isn’t right due to change of attitudes and the likes, and then he starts exhibiting other signs.
He starts keeping things private.
This is another red flag that indicates cheating. He didn’t have a password when everything was going on well but all of a sudden, he passwords his phones, he steps out to receive calls and at times, he owns a second phone or number of which you know nothing about. Dr Spelman once said, “Having a second mobile phone that has nothing to do with work or their regular phone can be a sign of cheating. Many cheaters keep a special phone for communicating with the person or people they are involved with.”
He begins to pay you less attention.
You guys were all lovey-dovey at first and now, he claims he is always busy? Did his pattern of work change? What made him so busy at this point? This is a clear indication he is cheating. Don’t get me wrong, there are times his work schedule might change and get him busier than before but no one can ever be too busy for a loved one. No matter how busy one is, you should be able to put a call through or even a brief text message.
He also gets to plans an outing with you and the next minute, he changes his plan with an excuse.
His movement changes.
Has he been leaving home by 9am and getting back by 5pm? Now he leaves early and comes back pretty late using work as an escape. At times, he goes out without telling you his whereabouts and when you ask, he gets angry sounding all defensive. This might be another red flag of cheating.
He is mostly seen amongst the opposite genders.
He keeps a lot of female friends; he works for females and even moves about with them. He sees no big deal in what he is doing and always defends himself. He mostly comes up with the word saying, “Ladies are fond of him”. If you are just starting the relationship or getting to know each other, this is a big red flag, he will be a cheater.
Conclusion
A man’s brain is programmed in a way in which he can’t really multitask when it comes to dealing with different women. If a man is cheating, there would be some glaring signs which has been noticed but chosen to be ignored. When a man starts cheating, he tends to pay less attention to one and more attention to the other.
Why are the searches of “How to know if my boyfriend will cheat” higher? does it mean women are not guilty? Please, leave a comment on your opinion and follow closely for the next article which gives a balance on how to know if your girlfriend is cheating.